I sympathize with you, LadyEngineer,
I got one about three weeks ago and didn't really want to give it up but thought that I was doing the right thing by giving others a chance a catching one. Kind of wish I had keep the little guy now.
I REALLY wanted to keep yjtb #19 (such a low number!) but, sigh, I gave him up - as I was supposed to do. At least he's in Stickerdude's hands so I know he'll be passed on. But, hey, wait a minute!
Geezer_Veezey just said -
I'd say, don't fight it. Just keep the next one you find.
Hey Dude - send that little guy back to me! He's gonna get lost!
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."